Mary looked out the coffee shop window for a long moment before speaking.

"I've been thinking about something."

Breed looked up from his coffee.

"What is it?"

"I know people who are incredibly intelligent. They've built successful careers, raised families, and made thoughtful decisions their entire lives. Yet when it comes to money, they sometimes make choices they later regret."

Breed smiled.

"So you're wondering why smart people make financial decisions they wish they could take back?"

Mary nodded.

"It doesn't make sense."

"Maybe it makes more sense than you think."

Mary looked puzzled.

"What do you mean?"

Breed leaned forward.

"Tell me something."

"When someone refuses to retire because they fear losing their purpose, is that really a financial decision?"

Mary thought for a moment.

"No."

"When someone delays making an important decision because they're afraid of making a mistake, is that really about money?"

She slowly shook her head.

"When parents continue helping adult children long after they know it isn't helping, is that a financial decision?"

Mary looked down at her coffee.

"I suppose it isn't."

Breed nodded.

"We tell ourselves we're making financial decisions."

"But underneath those decisions are fear... hope... guilt... pride... love... uncertainty... and sometimes memories we don't even realize are still influencing us."

"The money simply becomes the place where those emotions appear."

For a moment neither of them spoke.

Finally Mary asked quietly,

"So maybe people don't make poor financial decisions because they lack intelligence."

Breed smiled.

"Maybe they make decisions that seem perfectly reasonable... until they discover what was really driving them."

Mary sat silently.

Then she smiled.

"So before I ask what I should do..."

"I should first ask why I want to do it."

Breed smiled back.

"Now you're beginning to understand what it means to read Read The Money Mirror."

Before making your next important financial decision, ask yourself one question:

What emotion is quietly influencing this decision that I haven't acknowledged?

Sometimes the most important financial decision isn't changing your plan.

Sometimes it's understanding what's driving it.

If two intelligent people receive the exact same financial advice, why do they often make completely different decisions?

Richard Sowa
Founder – Read The Money Mirror

FINANCIAL DECISIONS ARE NEVER JUST FINANCIAL.

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